I may have worked with you at one time or knew you through work, but now I can’t remember your name. I know your face and I know I know you, so please don’t be insulted if I ask you your name. I’m simply trying to remember.

We may have been friends from years gone by or even as recent as a few years ago and I may have trouble recalling some of the good and funny times we shared. Feel free to recall those times with me. I may not remember all the details but it would be nice to recall those memories.

When we have a conversation, you may discover that I now stutter. I haven’t stuttered at any point in my life and those of you that know me can only imagine how much this bothers me. I’m proud of the TV shows, commercials and radio programs I have been involved with and I’m thankful for those times. I’m just glad the stuttering waited until now.

I may not remember something you just told me 5 or 10 minutes ago. Please don’t think it’s because I didn’t find it interesting or that I don’t care. My short term memory is not what it used to be so please don’t take it personally if I ask you something that pertains to what you just told me.

I don’t play my guitar or sing anymore. I’ve lost that passion I once had but I’m working on getting it back. It’s said that music plays a very big part in bringing back certain memories to people with Alzheimer’s. I still love music and I still listen to it but it doesn’t hold a candle to creating music. I’ll let you know how that goes.

The reason I’m sharing all of this with you is because at this point, if you see me or talk to me, I may not be the person you remember, but, “I’m Still Me!” 

  • Please don’t be afraid to joke with me. I still love to laugh.
  • Talk about old times.
  • Give me a hard time and mercilessly tease me (you know who you are! lol) or even send me or tell me Alzheimer’s jokes. I have found that humor lessens the blow.
    • Just so you know, some of the best and funniest jokes I hear are from the online groups I belong to. We may not be able to remember the jokes we tell one another but we at least have that funny moment we share with one another. 
    • no matter the case, LAUGH WITH, NOT AT!

Lastly and most important, although I have Alzheimer’s, inside “I’m Still Me!”
Treat me like you always have.
As a side note, Alzheimer’s is one of the most misunderstood disease. If you want to know about it, ask me or go to http://www.alz.org.

. . . Until Next time

3 thoughts on “I’m Still Me!

  1. I only know a couple of dementia jokes, but I borrow this one from Lauren. It’s one of my favorites. The speaker tries to rally the crowd of people with dementia. He yells with excitement “What do we want?” The crowd yells “More memory” The speaker replies enthusiastically “When do we want it?” The crowd responds “Want what?” It’s a serious disease, but I think it’s good to keep a sense of humor (especially about one’s own symptoms) as long as it is not directed at a person.

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  2. Thank you Brian. I am thinking of chronicling my own journey and did a search to see how many others are doing the same. I have enjoyed your posts…all too familiar. I will probably create an alias for my new blog, but I will let you know where I am. Thanks again for sharing!

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